Repeatedly nuked profile on Nostr: Since when is it someone's fault for accepting an interesting job paying $400K a ...

Since when is it someone's fault for accepting an interesting job paying $400K a year? You could say it's the employer's fault for offering the job if the person isn't right for it, but to say it's that person's fault for taking it, come on, not taking it would make one at fault of being totally bonkers.