I try to sway influencers towards a concept where relays are just some sort of ether that allows us to broadcast events (together with relays getting paid for the physical and legal burden of delivering these messages ideally on a per-CPU-cycle basis, anonymously) and fear big clients might embrace, extend and extinguish core properties of nostr by driving monolithic relay use.
I can't dictate the way but I can make some noise to warn of dangers of centralizing relay use patterns. I just don't want people to celebrate a moderation team in a stack that makes it hard to avoid their moderation.
