oh interesting, I wonder if I've been hitting these rate limits and that's why I have so much trouble with signers.
I also have my own relay but I only allow events from my own pubkey to be published there. 🤔 So I could point clients to my own relay for NIP-46 messages but there's no easy way to add every client key to my allowlist... I guess I am running `nak bunker` on the same machine as my relay. Maybe I could jerry-rig some communication between nak and my relay config? Sounds fragile though.
